FAQ

A lifestyle of non-monogany where sexual relations occur outside the established couple. Swingers tend to refrain from romantic attachments with their outside partners, thus differentiating themselves from PolyAmorists. There is some overlap between the two communities, though the closeness of the comparisons are generally not acknowledged. Quoted from UrbanDictionary. 

Swinging can be defined as the act of sharing yourself and your spouse with another couple or couples, with full knowledge of all involved. Swingers are people of all ages, races, and social status.

Although, there are instances where couples will participate in orgies, and some partners may simply prefer watching their partners engage in sex acts with other people.

Sometimes swinging occurs in the same room, but it can also happen in other rooms.

Few people know this, but swinging as a fad in America actually began in the 1950s with Air Force officers in California swapping wives. Today, though, in clubs and private homes in London, Paris, New York, and many other places, the swinger trend has reemerged. Read More

Soft Swap & Full Swap Swinging, Closed Swinging, Open Swinging, and Hard Swinging.

• A “soft swap” indicates a partner trade that doesn’t involve penetration.
• A “full swap,” on the other hand, indicates a hook-up that does involve penetration.)
• Closed Swinging or Closed Door indicates sexual interaction among swinging couples who trade partners and go to a separate rooms to have intercourse in privacy.
• Open Swinging
• Hard Swinging refers to having group sex or orgies.

Yes, there are! If you don’t follow swingers’ etiquette, you might find yourself kicked out from a club, uninvited to parties or with a bad reputation! Every swinger club has rules some will be different from others.

NO means absolutely NO – when anyone says “NO”, regardless of any reason, no means to “STOP” all activities at once. No explanation are needed to be given.

Each couple makes their own rules. Communication is essential to respecting boundaries.

Never assume anything, always ask.

One thing you never want to do is to out another swinger or couple. So while you might run into someone you’ve slept with out around town, you don’t want to indicate how you know them. Discretion is essential.

Couples get to explore their sexuality and sensuality in new ways than found in traditional relationships. It a good way for bi-curious women and men to explore their potential bisexuality.

Swinging can enhance a relationship and the commitment involved in the couple’s relationship. Becoming a swinger allows you to make many new friends.

Generally, swinging is about sex and not romance. You might have an ongoing swinging arrangement with a couple, or your interactions might be more like one-night stands. If you’re looking to fall in love with multiple people, then you’re talking about polyamory and not the swinging lifestyle.

It suggested that you and your partner first agree in engagement of such activity. Any rules or restrictions should be set by you and your partner together.

The Internet makes it much easier to get into the lifestyle and find other swingers, especially if you’re from a more rural area.
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You can also look up swinging clubs. If you’re in a large city, there may be a club where you can go to meet other swingers. The

While swinging or swingers is a fairly common term, there are still a lot of people that haven’t heard of it and many that aren’t properly informed. This causes misconceptions around the swinging lifestyle.

Just because someone may be a swinger doesn’t mean they are into anal, kinky sex, BDSM, or any kind of fetishes.

Swingers are more educated and a lot more careful when it comes to STD’s than non-swingers. They also are found to be tested more regularly and are more likely to use protection than non-swingers.

Finally, it’s important to know that just because someone is a swinger doesn’t mean they want to have sex with you.